A ministry bright-spot

In the midst of many dissatisfying and perplexing areas of pastoral ministry, there is one bright-spot where I find the most enjoyment.

Last summer a small group of fathers-of-young-children began meeting late on Wednesday evenings. It was born out of a desire for friendship as much as a responsibility for discipleship. We read and discussed Steve Farrar's book, "PointMan, How a Man Should Lead His Family." I was pleased with everyone's participation and desire for such a ministry.

When the new school year rolled around we launched into a new book, "Knowing God," by J.I. Packer. I knew this would be a challenge for some of our men. Packer doesn't write in a popular style like Farrar. Two men became too busy to attend the group but two others took their places. What a joy it was to discuss theological truths with these men and wrestle over the application to our lives as husbands, dads, and employees.

Now that Spring is here and "Knowing God" is complete, our group has begun, "The Love Dare," which comes from the movie, Fireproof. There are more men now. Books addressing marriage attract more interest than books on, say, the sovereignty of God. No one seems afraid of sharing. Last night one man, someone who does not go to our church, shared openly about the state of his marriage and we prayed for him specifically.

This has been a ministry bright-spot over the last year. It is late enough not to interfere with family time. It doesn't require any special preparation from me other than reading my chapters and praying. I am getting to know these men more personally and they are getting to know me. Our conversation is casual and transparent. Friendships are being forged.

I don't know what God has in store for this men's group. My hope is that the time spent reading and discussing and praying together will bear fruit in the church, in families, in the work place, and in men's devotional lives.